The air has that distinct late-October crispness now, the kind that makes you pull your sweater a little tighter and appreciate the warmth of a simple, glowing flame. On these quiet Sunday mornings, before the gentle buzz of the shop begins, I often find myself lost in thought, a cup of tea warming my hands. This morning, a powerful question settled in my heart, and I wanted to share it with you: how do you want to be remembered?
It’s such a simple question, but it holds so much weight. We get so caught up in the rhythm of our days—the to-do lists, the deadlines, the rush from one thing to the next. It’s easy to get stuck in our own heads, isn’t it? We invent stories about what someone might have meant by a passing comment and let small frustrations build until they spill over. In those moments, we might act with impatience or speak with a sharpness we don’t truly mean, whether toward a coworker, a friend, or even a stranger just passing by.
But I've been reflecting on a thought that stops me in my tracks: what if that was the last encounter you ever had with that person?
If that brief exchange was the final memory they had of you, would it be the one you’d want them to hold? Would your actions reflect the legacy you hope to leave behind? It’s a sobering thought, but also a beautiful invitation. It reminds me that life is so precious and our time here isn't guaranteed. This isn't meant to be a sad realization, but a call to make our days—and, more importantly, our interactions—truly count.
It's about choosing to be the light in the room.
In every moment, we have a choice. Instead of reacting out of habit or haste, we can pause, breathe, and consider how we want to treat the people in front of us. Is it with kindness? With genuine presence? With a patience that offers grace—to them and to ourselves? When we act from that place, we’re building a legacy of warmth, one small moment at a time. It’s not about grand gestures, but the quiet, consistent glow of how we treat one another day in and day out.
As we step into this new week, I invite you to carry this question with you. Let’s make an intention to be a little kinder, a little more present, and a little more patient.
Tonight, I encourage you to light your favorite candle. As you watch the flame dance, let it be a simple, beautiful reminder to lead with warmth and to leave a little bit of light with everyone you meet. We're not here forever, so make each second count.
💛 Christiana
